Avarent

A personal / anti pro ana blog.
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I'm not in recovery so my posts may be triggering.
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Ok I sort of want to make a side blog for street fashion and I sort of really don’t. Would anyone care if I started blogging about fashion more often?

"You look like you can break."

"I have more blood than you."

"You have to ea-"
Litteraly NO, stfu.

I hate being preached to about my health and weight. I have a customer that just kept on going, I know she suspects my ed. She knows, but I am digging my heels in to this lie.

I know all this shit, I know they mean well, but shut up….

hierkommtalexx:

Go on the blog you want to report.
Press “share blog”
Go on “share via mail”
Type in why this blog is against tumblr guidelines (probably add some screenshots)
send to abuse@tumblr.com

DONE!

(via dontglamourizeit)

Asker Anonymous Asks:
please do not talk about anorexia if you think that it's caused by beauty standards. just please stop forever. like just don't. please. go sit down. stop forever.
avarent avarent Said:

lazycouturex:

do you know anything about anything or……..

do you? or …

hey-there101:

lazycouturex:

hey-there101 reblogged your post and added:

"Grow the fuck up" says the person defending…

Where did I defend pro ana blogs????? Where? also your theme is an actual shit show you should probably fix it

ok yeah sorry I’m never on my laptop and do everything from mobile and yeah so no one else has ever said anything so yeah ill fix it right up for you.

done with this conversation. 

such argument, much releavnce. Your best support is insulting a blog theme, and you call the character bloggers immature, at least they’re funny, you just butt hurt and rude.

des-enterrando:

New anti pro-ana blog and anti self-harm blog. This blog is an spanish blog dedicated to dig up the truth about a harmful community so called pro-ana and pro-self harm in general, and let the spanish speaking people know about its dangers and mostly how disrespectful it is for those with an eating…

Finally!

pro-ana-is-a-diet:

I realize that the whole situation is kind of stupid right now, but I’m honestly laughing that anorexicchair got terminated. Like, it was a chair. A pro-ana chair. They terminated a chair for promoting anorexia. That is hilarious. Great job, staff. 

anorexicchair’s blog was repo-ed lol.

it was terminte-ated

This is a guide on;

1) what to do when approached by someone who points out harmful posts or content on your blog

2) to avoid it altogether and generally safely write about your ED without promoting/ glorifying it.

I have a general link to what does glorify/promote/ minimize ed’s . 

Now generally in my own attempts to deal with individuals who have harmful posts or content, I try to be as matter of fact as possible.

Basically; this is what is wrong/ this is why/ this what you should do/ this is what will happen if you don’t.

People will get upset if you post something very harmful (restrictive diets/ fasting, thinspo with encouraging quotes, emaciated thinspo, reblogged/stolen images of actual ed suffers for thinspo, tips and tricks, self diagnosis etc.)

I want to stray from the what and why and concentrate on what to do instead.

edcynic ‘s can I post this questions can be helpful for self evaluation. When it is brought to your attention by others or your own review of your actions/posts. Consider;

  • remove the content that has been pointed out/ found to be harmful 

The pages or posts can be deleted and thus begins reforming your blog. No one will report a blog if there is nothing to report. If you keep that type of content away from the public, it can’t cause them harm.

  • With ana buddys;  this should be avoided all together

Though I understand the want to have a relationship with others that have ED’s and to be able to speak freely with others in the same situation. This relationship is highly toxic. When you engage in disordered behaviors with others, enabling them can cause them serious harm and leave you partly responsible for what happens. 

  • privately posting things others could see that can be harmful such as diets and thinspo of all types.

(though personally  and I mean very personally dislike personal images taken from bloggers with eds because its disrespectful and hurtful based on personal experience and viewing the same response from others who have had it happen to them)Generally diets and thinspo are certainly not healthy for ANYONE, and not advised to be viewed, it is against the tumblr guidlines to post such things as it does promote it for others. It can be used by others. It will enable others in dangerous behaviors as it enables you. 

  • Avoid viewing and using pro tags (pro ana, pro mia, skinnyland, thinspo, ana buddies etc.)

Instead if you look through the actuallyed, actuallyanorexia, actuallybuilimia, ed recovery tags, you can find people struggling or overcoming their eds.In ways that don’t encourage the behavior. some people are not in recovery and we engage in ed behaviors but when speaking of them, it is not in a way that makes it seem like a good idea. Generally it is a long list of posts of how (this behavior lead to fml scenarios)

So…

image

try to avoid posting harmful content.

Ask box is always open as well for anything I didn’t cover. I really despise the pro anorexia movement but not the people themselves even when truly frustrated. My main goal is to stop the actions, and actually help people going through an ed, or to avoid the damages appropriating the behaviors can lead to. To also help those in danger of developing an ed and early intervention.

anas-little-whore:

loveme-imanaquarius:

hey-there101:

loveme-imanaquarius:

hey-there101:

hitlersbreasticle:

I will reblog this until I die

*screams from the rooftop* ANOREXIA HAS A WEIGHT CRITERION. That being said, you can have other EDs at any weight, but you have to be underweight to have anorexia nervosa.

^^^FALSE

Yeah it’s not false

You DO NOT have to be underweight to be Anorexic. It’s a MENTAL DISORDER! It’s how YOU look at YOURSELF.
Dumbass

You have to be underweight to be diagnosed, not to actually have it.

I’m not so sure about what this means but upon veiwing this blog, and the horrendous section dedicated to dangerous tips and tricks I would ask that you take down material as such that promotes ED’s. I have links to what can cause harm and promote eds and also other resources for recovery and help here

anas-little-whore:

loveme-imanaquarius:

hey-there101:

loveme-imanaquarius:

hey-there101:

hitlersbreasticle:

I will reblog this until I die

*screams from the rooftop* ANOREXIA HAS A WEIGHT CRITERION. That being said, you can have other EDs at any weight, but you have to be underweight to have anorexia nervosa.

^^^
FALSE

Yeah it’s not false

You DO NOT have to be underweight to be Anorexic. It’s a MENTAL DISORDER! It’s how YOU look at YOURSELF.


Dumbass

You have to be underweight to be diagnosed, not to actually have it.

I’m not so sure about what this means but upon veiwing this blog, and the horrendous section dedicated to dangerous tips and tricks I would ask that you take down material as such that promotes ED’s. I have links to what can cause harm and promote eds and also other resources for recovery and help here